Our menus for 04/05/26 – 04/11/26

All set for next week, precluding the daily “What shall we have for dinner tonight?” conversation. What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
04/05/26
Sunday
•  Meatballs in marinara sauce c̅ large-shell pasta
•  House salad
04/06/26
Monday
(Pelagic Run Club runners’ happy hour)
•  Happy hour snacks
04/07/26
Tuesday
•  Broiled lobster tails c̅ drawn butter
•  Baked potatoes
•  House salad
04/08/26
Wednesday
(Kitchen renovations start)
•  Grilled hot dogs
•  Quinoa salad
04/09/26
Thursday
•  Grilled chicken breasts
•  Sweet potatoes
•  House salad
04/10/26
Friday
•  Fish sandwiches
•  Coleslaw
•  Green beans
04/11/26
Saturday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Broccoli

Our menus for 03/15/26 – 03/21/26

All set for next week — precluding the daily “What shall we have for dinner tonight?” conversation. What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
03/15/26
Sunday
•  Sliced ham
•  Sweet potatoes
•  House salad
03/16/26
Monday
(Runners’ happy hours return!)
•  Happy hour snacks
03/17/26
Tuesday
•  Chicken stir-fry c̅ mixed vegetables
•  Egg drop soup
03/18/26
Wednesday
•  Stuffed peppers
•  Spaghetti squash
03/19/26
Thursday
•  Grilled shrimp kabobs
•  Wild rice salad
03/20/26
Friday
•  Chef salad c̅ grilled chicken strips
03/21/26
Saturday
•  Über Wisconsin
•  Tomato-basil soup

Our menus for 02/22/26 – 02/28/26

All set for this week — precluding the daily “What shall we have for dinner tonight?” conversation.

Day Meal
02/22/26
Sunday
•  Ham chef salad
02/23/26
Monday
•  Scallop & Corn Soup (Content Team Cookbook, p. 6)
•  House salad
02/24/26
Tuesday
•  Dinner salad c̅ cold shrimp
02/25/26
Wednesday
•  Turkey c̅ cranberry sauce
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Broccoli florets
02/26/26
Thursday
•  Chicken tacos
•  Cream salad
02/27/26
Friday
•  Kathy Vaillancourt’s award-winning Maine Maple Haddock
•  Cheesy broccoli & cauliflower
•  House salad
02/28/26
Saturday
•  Chicken cordon blue
•  Butternut squash
•  Garlic butter c̅ rotini & vegetables

Our menus for 01/25/26 – 01/31/26

All set for this week — precluding the daily “What shall we have for dinner tonight?” conversation.

Day Meal
01/25/26
Sunday
(Drinks w/Dyson & Sam, 5 p.m.)
•  Chicken tacos
•  Cream salad
01/26/26
Monday
•  Meatloaf
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Steamed cabbage
01/27/26
Tuesday
•  Ham steak
•  Garlic & rotini vegetables
•  Steamed carrots
01/28/26
Wednesday
•  Pepperoni pizza supreme
•  House salad
01/29/26
Thursday
•  Grilled filet mignon medallions
•  Air-fried-in-hush-puppy-mix okra
•  New potatoes
01/30/26
Friday
(John @ Madama Butterfly w/Guy, 7:30 p.m.)
•  Scallop & Corn Soup (Content Team Cookbook, p. 6)
•  Hearty bread
•  House salad
01/31/26
Saturday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Potato salad
•  Green beans

Our menus for 01/11/26 – 01/17/26

All set for this week — precluding the daily “What shall we have for dinner tonight?” conversation.

Day Meal
01/11/26
Sunday
•  Ground turkey tacos
•  Mexican zucchini
•  Cream salad
01/12/26
Monday
•  Cheesy Amish breakfast casserole
01/13/26
Tuesday
(WCPL photo-organizing webinar, 7 – 8 p.m.)
•  Hot dogs
•  Fries
•  House salad
01/14/26
Wednesday
•  Fish
•  Rotmos
•  Steamed cabbage
01/15/26
Thursday
•  Hot smoked sausage/cabbage/broccoli stir-fry
01/16/26
Friday
•  Shrimp
•  French onion soup
•  Quinoa & spinach power blend vegetables
01/17/26
Saturday
•  Quinoa salad
•  Ham steak
•  Steamed cauliflower

Our menus for 01/04/26 – 01/10/26

Happy New Year! Thanks to Bob for getting us “good to go” for the upcoming week! What day shall we expect you?

Day Meal
01/04/26
Sunday
•  Pork loin
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Green beans
01/05/26
Monday
•  Shrimp, rice, & vegetable stir fry
01/06/26
Tuesday
•  Smoked sausage
•  Butternut squash ravioli
•  Rotmos
01/07/26
Wednesday
•  Cod c̅ coleslaw
•  Crinkle-cut fries
•  Fruit salad
01/08/26
Thursday
•  Hamburger soup (p. 150 of Best Hamburger Recipes cookbook)
•  Crusty bread
01/09/26
Friday
(LTBG Happy Hour @ Nomad, 6 – 8 p.m.)
•  Spinach lasagna plan-aheads
•  Zucchini
01/10/26
Saturday
(Possible visit from Anne, Dan, Evalyn, etc.)
•  Chicken tacos
•  Mexican corn
•  Cream salad

2nd Annual Mordecai New Year’s Eve Progressive Cocktail Party

We had our 2nd annual neighborhood New Year’s Eve progressive cocktail party, with this year’s theme being “Pours and Passports”:

In a countdown to midnight, 4 Mordecai neighbors opened their homes for an hour each and offered drinks and snacks related to their stop’s country. We had ~50 people attending this year’s event, up from 28 in our inaugural year in 2024.


First Stop

The house, for Italian Indulgence

Our host, Marianne

Featured Italian cocktails:
•  Aperol Spritz: Aperol, Prosecco, sparkling water, orange slice
•  Negroni: gin, sweet vermouth, Campari, orange wedge

Featured Italian snacks:
•  Two antipasto platters of cured meats, olives, cheeses, grapes
•  Crackers & bread slices to complement the platters
•  A variety of biscotti
•  Marcona almonds
•  Tiramisu (in honor of a guest’s birthday)

At this first stop, we asked everyone to create a name tag comprising their name and how long they’ve lived in Mordecai.

I pulled an Emeril Lagasse on Bob’s and my name tags and kicked them up a notch (Bam!) with a picture of our house on it.

Also at this stop, people made good use of the selfie station provided by Marianne & Jen!

Click on first image to bring up the gallery to flip through.


Second Stop

The house, for French Fusion

Our hosts, Brian & Jeff

Featured French cocktails:
•  Cognac French 75: cognac, champagne, simple syrup, lemon juice
•  Minuit a Paris: vodka, St-Germain, cranberry juice, simple syrup, lemon slice

Featured French snacks:
• Spinach & cheddar quiche
• Baguette slices with ham, Gruyère cheese, French butter, & cornichon
Gougère cheese puffs with Parmesan and Pecorino cheeses
• Macarons 


Some people shots at this stop:


Third Stop

The house, for Irish Imbibements


Our hosts, John & Mary Beth

Featured Irish beverages:
•  Irish coffee with a jigger of Jameson Irish Whiskey and Nana Casey’s secret recipe for sweetness, topped with a dollop of whipped cream
•  Guinness beer
•  Black Bush Irish Whiskey
•  Writers’ Tears Irish Whiskey

Featured Irish snacks and artifacts:

Snacks
•  Scones
•  Guinness Glazed Meatballs
•  Bleu and cheddar cheeses from Ireland

Artifacts
•  Statue of St. Patrick, patron saint of Ireland
•  A piece of crochet from Mary Beth’s grandma
•  Photos in remembrance of family now gone: both sets of parents; John’s brother, Tom; John’s great-grandmother, Nana Casey (of the secret-Irish-Coffee-sweetness-recipe fame)
•  Books related to Ireland, among other items

Some people shots at this stop:



Fourth Stop

The house, for Mexican Mixers

Our host, Amy

Amy’s co-host, Neal, provided the food

Featured Mexican cocktails:
•  Palomas: tequila, grapefruit juice, sparking water, lime juice, coarse sea salt
•  Champagne for the midnight toast (full disclosure: not Mexican)

Featured Mexican snacks:
• Crema de garbanzo con cilantro y jalapeños asado acompañado de zanahorias, apio y pimientos morrones
• Rugelach de chocolate mexicano y nuez pacana & Rugelach de queso fresco ahumado y jalapeño asado
• Pastel de tres leches

Sheets of paper were available to write on with “Sh*t you don’t want to take into 2026” and burn in the fire pit before midnight. Some example sh*t people wanted to jettison:

The accumulation of liquid courage across 4 hours and 4 homes brought the socializing to a peak during this final hour of 2025!

Ending up with the countdown on TV and a champagne toast at midnight.


And if there was any doubt that fun was had by all, a look at Amy’s kitchen at the end of the night!


Thanks to all who hosted our four stops this year and your enthusiastic and generous hospitality!

After this second one of these neighborhood progressive cocktail parties, it’s obvious it’s a great way to spend New Year’s Eve. In fact, I recently wrote three 50-word stories about some advantages of spending New Year’s Eve this way:

Our menus for 12/28/25 – 01/03/26

This week’s menus. Looking forward to Wednesday’s fun foods! What strikes your fancy this week?

Day Meal
12/28/25
Sunday
•  Pizza plan-aheads & catch-as-catch-can
12/29/25
Monday
•  Turkey c̅ cranberry sauce
•  Mashed potatoes c̅ gravy & stuffing
•  Brussels sprouts
12/30/25
Tuesday
•  Kielbasa c̅ pineapple
•  Scalloped potatoes
•  House salad
12/31/25
Wednesday
(Mordecai NYE Progressive Cocktail Party – “Pours & Passports”)
•  Chez nous, 6 p.m.: Pre-party, light hors d’oeuvres of potato skins
•  Marianne’s house, 8-8:55: Italian drinks & treats
•  Jeff & Brian’s house, 9-9:55: French drinks & treats
•  Mary Beth & John’s house, 10-10:55: Irish drinks & treats
•  Amy’s house, 11-midnight: Mexican drinks & treats + champagne toast
01/01/26
Thursday
•  Fettuccine c̅ meatballs
•  Green beans
•  House salad
01/02/26
Friday
•  Ham steak
•  Broccoli casserole
•  House salad
01/03/26
Saturday
•  Grilled chicken breasts
•  Pasta salad
•  Green beans

Our menus for 12/21/25 – 12/27/25

This week’s menus! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
12/21/25
Sunday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Potato salad
•  Broccoli
12/22/25
Monday
(Mid-hiatus reprise of happy hour to wish the Pelagic Run Club runners happy holidays!)
•  Party food
12/23/25
Tuesday
•  Shrimp
•  Power blend vegetables
•  House salad
12/24/25
Wednesday
(Mordecai Roll & Stroll, 1 – 2 p.m.)
•  Roll & Stroll: Hot nuts, eggnog martinis, BJ shots, kids’ snack bags)

Dinner:
•  Fettuccini c̅ meatballs
•  Green beans
•  House salad
12/25/25
Thursday
(Mashewske-Nagel-Parker Open House Extravaganza)
•  Taking deviled eggs
12/26/25
Friday
•  Turkey c̅ cranberry sauce
•  Mashed potatoes c̅ gravy
•  Brussels sprouts
12/27/25
Saturday
•  Chicken enchiladas
•  Cream salad

A little hot toddy

Bob came in from working in the yard in the cold and wanted a little hot-chocolate warm-up.

I suggested dropping a couple of large marshmallows in it, and noted that it certainly couldn’t hurt to add a little Baileys to it as well.

Our menus for 11/30/25 – 12/06/25

This week’s menus! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
11/30/25
Sunday
•  Turkey & gravy
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Asparagus
•  House salad
12/01/25
Monday
•  Vegetable soup
•  Clam strips
12/02/25
Tuesday
•  Butternut squash c̅ meatballs
•  House salad
12/03/25
Wednesday
•  Egg drop soup
•  PF Chang’s Lo Mein
•  Mixed vegetables
12/04/25
Thursday
•  Beef enchiladas (John) & beef & been enchiladas (Bob)
•  Mexican rice
•  Cream salad
12/05/25
Friday
(First Friday LTBG happy hour @ Nomad)
•  Catch-as-catch-can
12/06/25
Saturday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  Sweet potato
•  Brussels sprouts

Our menus for 11/23/25 – 11/29/25

This week’s menus! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
11/23/25
Sunday
•  Angus burger sliders
•  French fries
•  House salad
11/24/25
Monday
•  Grilled chicken breasts
•  Sweet potatoes
•  Brussels sprouts
11/25/25
Tuesday
•  Shrimp & vegetable stir fry
•  Asian soup
11/26/25
Wednesday
•  Butternut squash ravioli c̅ meatballs
•  Green beans
11/27/25
Thursday
(Thanksgiving @ Vivian and Jeff’s; post-dinner visit to Tom & Claire’s)
•  Taking deviled eggs to V&J’s
11/28/25
Friday
(10-year anniversary gathering)
•  Party food
11/29/25
Saturday
•  Plan-aheads

Freezer inventory

A lot of people have been asking about our freezer inventory, and it has been a while since we’ve provided an update.

Just kidding. Not one single person has asked — or even thought about — our freezer inventory. We’re not that egomaniacal.

That aside, to satiate your subconscious curiosity, here’s the inventory as of 11/23/25 @ 10:13 AM:

KITCHEN FREEZER
1 package of plain green beans 5 spinach egg-white frittatas
1 can OJ 2 Eggo waffles
1 package of butternut squash ravioli 6 pork sausage patties
2 Angus burgers 2 hash brown patties
Tyson chicken bites 15 mozzarella sticks
Meatballs plan-aheads California blend mixed vegetables
Chicken stroganoff plan-aheads 1 jar homemade pesto
1 bag of hash browns Egg nog ice cream
1 package crinkle-cut fries  
HALL FREEZER
2 8-packs of bun size hot dogs Clam strips
1 5-pack of regular hot dogs 1 Motor City supreme pizza
1 21-pack of Nathan’s hot dogs 8 potato skins
1 lb ground turkey PF Chang’s Chicken Lo Mein
1 1-lb package of bacon 1 20-pack flour tortillas
1 bag of shrimp PB&J strawberry uncrustables
1 bag of scallops Classic hummus
2 1-lb packages of linguiça 2 containers whipped topping
1 (2-portion) chicken cordon bleu 1 Casa Cocina queso + 1 Queso-Melt
1 packages of boneless chicken thighs 2 1-lb packages of butter
1 turkey breast loin 1 bag air-fryer french fries
2 chicken breasts 1 12-pack of dinner rolls
1 pkg of cranberry-jalapeno meatballs 4 cinnamon raisin bagels
1 package broccoli/cauliflower/carrots 5 plain bagels
1 package of Brussels sprouts 5 pumpkin bagels

Our menus for 11/09/25 – 11/15/25

We are good to go for next week! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
11/09/25
Sunday
•  Ham
•  Scalloped potatoes
•  Orange sesame chopped salad
11/10/25
Monday
•  Pumpkin sausage soup
•  Green beans
•  Cornbread
11/11/25
Tuesday
•  PF Chang’s General Chang Chicken
•  Asian noodle soup
•  Applesauce
11/12/25
Wednesday
•  Cod
•  Corn & peppers
•  House salad
11/13/25
Thursday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  Green beans + yellow beans & carrots medley
•  Mashed potatoes
11/14/25
Friday
•  Über Wisconsin sandwiches
•  Tomato soup
11/15/25
Saturday
•  Jazzy Jambalaya soup
•  Clam strips

The Deaton-Lee 2025 Halloween zombie party

Our friends Dana and Finley have been hosting zombie-themed Halloween parties for almost 2 decades! Their invitation said: “If you don’t have a zombie costume, it’s easy to ‘zombify’ a costume you do have.”

Bob and I did just that with costumes we bought for a nautical-themed party on our recent New England & Canada BearCruise.

From:

to:

That’s “Peg” with us — a $5 find at the Dollar Tree — and the inspiration for our make-up.


And two fun foods at the party:


Epilogue: FTR, this stuff was an absolute bitch to remove:

With the white and black smearing together into a bluish-gray color during removal, we’d’ve been a hit joining other blue hairs at K&W for a 4:30 dinner. A lot of this, with a multiple applications, was involved in the removal:

The banana that “doesn’t brown” is hitting the shelves.

From ZME Science: The First New Commercial Banana In 75 Years Is Coming To The Market Next Year

“When a banana is bruised, cut, or peeled, enzymes trigger a chemical cascade that ends in melanin, the same pigment that colors human hair. Those brown patches are technically harmless, but they’re responsible for throwing away nearly one-third of all bananas grown worldwide — roughly 5 billion bananas in the U.S. alone every year.” Read the entire article.


On the surface this seems like good news, but I rely on those black spots to inform me about how tasty a banana is. And when it comes to that, I’m a “13 kind of guy.” My husband is a “7 or 8 kind of guy.” What about you?

And I can’t think of that without remembering February 21, 2016, when I was still working and my husband made my lunch every day.

He knows how I like my bananas, but we didn’t have any ripe ones so he DIYed one up and put it in my lunch bag. Imagine my surprise when I opened it:

Yes he did make a banana ripe with a:

Sharpie

New England & Canada BearCruise meet & greet

Next weekend, we embark on the New England & Canada BearCruise:

and Bob and I hosted a meet and greet for the Raleigh guys going on the trip.


(from l-r): Bob, Steve, Chad, Ben, Al, John, Brent, Ken, & Cronin. We also invited our neighbors Jeff & Brian (not pictured) who are considering a future BearCruise.

Bob decorated the walls for the event!

Brent bought everyone a door magnet that says, “Warning. We bought the drink package,” and Bob and I bought a bear paw with our names on it — before we learned that NCL doesn’t allow door decorations per item 36.

Long-time friends:

And the meet and greet hosts (yours trulies):

I wish my eyes squinted even more when I smile or laugh. NOT.

The potluck food:


Food included: 7-layer taco dip w/Tostito Scoops, pasta salad, chicken wings, ham-delight sandwiches, deviled eggs, castrated church brownies (no nuts & no weed), and chocolate chip walnut cookies.

Complete, but important aside: See that little line of tinfoil toward the front end of the taco dip? The portion closest to the camera is for me. It’s actually a 6-layer taco salad that Bob makes for me, because I don’t like beans! (Can you say, “Princess?” I know I’m spoiled!)


The open bar flowed and after dinner, all of us sat out on our deck to continue our cocktails and conversations while enjoying the beautiful weather.

Our menus for 09/14/25 – 09/20/25

Thanks to Bob for pulling this week’s menus together! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
09/07/25
Sunday
•  Stuffed scallops appetizer
•  Grilled Angus burgers
•  Quinoa salad
09/08/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering the Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Happy hour snacks
   ◦  Tostitos & sausage dip
   ◦  Veggie tray c̅ hummus
   ◦  Honey cookies
09/09/25
Tuesday
•  Grilled drumsticks
•  Grilled vegetables
•  House salad
09/10/25
Wednesday
•  Italian meatballs c̅ angel hair pasta
•  Brussels sprouts
•  House salad
09/11/25
Thursday
•  Ranch pork chops
•  Cheddar rice
•  Broccoli
09/12/25
Friday
•  Baked cod c̅ lemon & garlic
•  Coleslaw
•  Mashed potatoes
09/13/25
Saturday
(BearCruise) meet & greet
•  Seven-layer taco dip c̅ Tostitos
•  Chocolate Chip Walnut Cookies

Cooking and discussing scallops

Every other month or so, Bob & I (in Raleigh) have a Zoom-call happy hour with Bob’s brother Jimmy and his wife Cindy (in Scottsdale), just to catch up.

For it, we each make an “agenda” to keep the meeting moving and to cover everything that’s on our collective minds.

We were texting recently and the subject of scallops came up, and Cindy requested that we add that to the agenda.

We buy Patagonian scallops from Publix whenever they’re BOGO, which means we get one $19.50 bag like this one for free.

In preparation for our call, I did a search on “scallops” in all of our meal menus since January 1, 2024, to refresh our memories of all ways we’ve cooked them — and by “we,” I mean Bob, because I don’t cook. This is what we found:

Heat & serve prepared appetizers:
With Bob’s intuition:
  • Gingered scallops with teriyaki rice
  • Sweet sesame teriyaki scallops
  • Veggie Yakisoba c̅ scallops
  • Stir-fry scallops
  • Cabbage fried rice c̅ scallops
  • Scallop fried rice
  • Sautéed-in-butter scallops
  • Crispy baked scallops
  • Scallop Pad Thai Soup
  • Shrimp & scallops chef salad
  • Mac & cheese c̅ scallops
From recipes:

Our menus for 09/07/25 – 09/13/25

We are well into the week, but here they are! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
09/07/25
Sunday
•  Meatballs c̅ mushroom gravy
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Snap peas
09/08/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering the Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Happy hour snacks
   ◦  Buffalo chicken dip on baguette
   ◦  Carrots, celery, & hummus
   ◦  Salty snacks
09/09/25
Martes
•  Tacos de pollo con ensalada de crema
•  Arroz Mexicano
09/10/25
Wednesday
•  Pork loin
•  Asparagus risotto
•  House salad
09/11/25
Thursday
•  Chicken & vegetable dumplings
•  Ginger shrimp lo mein
•  Mixed vegetables
09/12/25
Friday
•  BBQ pork sandwiches
•  Coleslaw
•  Fruit salad
09/13/25
Saturday
•  Stuffed scallops
•  Grilled Angus burgers
•  Quinoa salad

Our menus for 08/24/25 – 08/30/25

This week’s dinner menus are good to go! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
08/10/25
Sunday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Grilled vegetables
08/11/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering the Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Happy hour snacks
•  Chicken & vegetable dumplings
08/12/25
Tuesday
•  Meatballs
•  Cooked carrots
•  Brussels sprouts
08/13/25
Wednesday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Air-fried okra
08/14/25
Thursday
(Dinner at David & Shelley’s)
•  Menu TBA
08/15/25
Friday
•  Pizza kit c̅ custom toppings
•  House salad
08/16/25
Saturday
•  Peace China

Sassool check-in

First of all, I love a divided plate. The “Pick 3 Platter”:

Cabbage salad, chicken salad, and quinoa salad

For posterity, the quinoa salad ingredients: quinoa, spinach, celery, onion, chickpeas, walnuts, cranberries, oranges, olives, olive oil, vinegar, black pepper and salt. (V + GF)

It’s always great to have lunch and catch up with my friend Jen!

Butter made from carbon tastes like the real thing, gets backing from Bill Gates (3-minute read)

Savor, a company in Batavia, Illinois, makes butter from carbon and hydrogen with no agriculture whatsoever. The butter looks, smells, and tastes like real butter but without the farmland, fertilizer, or emissions tied to the typical process.

The company expects its products to be available on shelves for the average consumer by around 2027. Savor is backed by billionaire Bill Gates, who says lab-made fats and oils have an immense potential to significantly reduce humans’ carbon footprint.

Read the article on CBS News.

Sources:
•  TLDR. (2025, August 11). TLDR Newsletter. https://a.tldrnewsletter.com/web-version?ep=1&lc=f5cb7e17-003d-11ed-9258-0241b9615763&p=49d172fc-7685-11f0-9288-afd07c8a0780&pt=campaign&t=1754909744&s=f4da54bba947e4297e9e21dc84ef0bd7df692f8236efa6fec33c190708e12afe
•  Molina, T. (2025, August 7). Butter made from carbon tastes like the real thing, gets backing from Bill Gates. CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/chicago/news/butter-carbon-bill-gates-batavia-illinois

Our menus for 08/10/25 – 08/16/25

This week’s dinner menus are good to go! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
08/10/25
Sunday
•  Tacos
•  Mexican rice
•  Cream salad
08/11/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering the Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Happy hour snacks
•  Chicken & vegetable dumplings
08/12/25
Tuesday
•  Chicken patties on Dave’s Killer Buns
•  Chopped salad
08/13/25
Wednesday
•  Meatloaf
•  Scalloped potatoes
•  Green beans
08/14/25
Thursday
•  “Easiest Eggplant
•  Air-fried okra/td>
08/15/25
Friday
•  Breakfast-for-dinner
08/16/25
Saturday
•  “The Best Chicken Quesadillas
•  Snap peas

Our menus for 08/03/25 – 08/09/25

This week’s dinner menus are good to go! What strikes your fancy?

Day Meal
07/27/25
Sunday
•  Impossible cheeseburger pie
•  Zucchini
•  Cucumber salad
07/28/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering the Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Happy hour snacks
•  Chicken & vegetable dumplings
07/29/25
Tuesday
•  Pork loin
•  Mashed potatoes
•  House salad
07/30/25
Wednesday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  Air-fried okra
•  Fruit salad
07/31/25
Thursday
•  Cheese ravioli c̅ meat sauce
•  Steamed Brussels sprouts
•  Caprese salad
08/01/25
Friday
•  Egg drop soup
•  Sweet sesame teriyaki scallops
•  Mixed vegetables
08/02/25
Saturday
•  Pizza c̅ custom toppings
•  House salad

Our menus for 07/27/25 – 08/02/25

Next week’s dinner menus are in the book. Although, “it’s just a guide,” and if something comes up, we’ll be flexible. What night can we expect you?

Day Meal
07/27/25
Sunday
•  Pork belly tacos
•  Cream salad
07/28/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Chicken bites
•  House salad
07/29/25
Tuesday
•  Baked ham
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Steamed broccoli
07/30/25
Wednesday
•  Pizza c̅ custom toppings
•  House salad
07/31/25
Thursday
•  Ham-topped chef salad
08/01/25
Friday
•  Grilled bacon-mushroom-Swiss Angus burgers
•  Cucumber-and-tomato or caprese salad
08/02/25
Saturday
•  Wiener Schnitzel & noodles
•  Mushrooms
•  Asparagus

Our dinner menus for the week of 7/20 – 7/26

Bob has created our menus for the upcoming week!

Day Meal
07/20/25
Sunday
•  Cheese ravioli c̅ pesto sauce
•  Broccoli
•  Fruit salad
07/21/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  PB&J Uncrustables
•  Salad
07/22/25
Tuesday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Quinoa salad
07/23/25
Wednesday
•  Tuna tetrazzini
•  Mixed greens salad
07/24/25
Thursday
•  Cordon bleu
•  Butternut squash
•  House salad
07/25/25
Friday
•  Grilled Angus burgers
•  Grilled zucchini & yellow squash
07/26/25
Saturday
•  Gingered scallops
•  Teriyaki rice
•  Mixed Asian vegetables

Our menus for 07/13/25 – 07/19/25

In between finishing Danube riverboat cruise blog posts (me) and catching up on the laundry and mowing (Bob), we’re getting “back in the saddle” after someone else having meal planned and cook for us for 11 days. I know Bob appreciated the break.

Thanks to him for preparing next week’s menus. We are good to go for the week!

Day Meal
07/13/25
Sunday
•  Chicken burger patties
•  Crispy crown potatoes
•  Mixed vegetables
07/14/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Hot dogs c̅ slaw
•  Pasta salad
07/15/25
Tuesday
•  Kielbasa c̅ sautéed pineapple, green peppers, onions
•  Rice pilaf
•  Tomato-cucumber salad
07/16/25
Wednesday
•  Pork tenderloin
•  Green beans c̅ mushrooms
•  Mashed potatoes/td>
07/17/25
Thursday
•  Cheese ravioli c̅ pesto sauce
•  Broccoli
•  House salad
07/18/25
Friday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Quinoa salad
07/19/25
Saturday
(Klekner / Livingston dinner)
•  Something fabulous, we’re sure

Danube riverboat cruise – Budapest, Hungary – Sunday, July 6

Today’s program:

Excursion description: Architecture from across the centuries shines a light on the history of the Hungarian capital. Originally two separate cities, Buda to the west and Pest to the east offer incredibly different views on the culture of one of the liveliest cities in Eastern Europe. Today, you’ll have the opportunity to explore the city during a guided tour, including Heroes’ Square and the UNESCO World Heritage-listed Andrássy Avenue and Buda Castle District.

These brilliant devices were provided in our cabins, which you use during the walking tours to be able to hear your guides without everyone having to crowd around them.

We loved our tour guide — “You can call me Charlotte,” she said. She’s in the purple dress in the last picture in this set. A few of my favorite things of this outing:

The Garden of Philosophers

Heroes’ Square

A few amusing things on the tour:


Late afternoon, we had a “Captain’s Reception” and then our “Port Talk,” which is when they tell you about the next port and everything going on there.

During the captain’s reception, we enjoyed champagne with an amuse bouche, and I treated myself with a change from bourbon and sodas to a treat from the Vodka Cocktail Collection. We had the most expensive, so all-inclusive drink package, so why not?


We had a most delightful dinner, sharing a table with new friends, Daniel & Michael. They’re from Seattle and they’re the first people we’ve met who create a list of dinner menus for the week like we do.

Each night for dinner, there is the full menu, along with a “chef’s recommendation” menu:

Bob and I both chose the chef’s recommendation this evening:


After dinner there was a “Name That Tune” game that I didn’t participate in, but Bob did. There were 3 parts to the game with the emcee playing a clip of music each time.

First round: You had to identify the song title and the artist (or band).
Second round: You had to identify a song that was being played backward.
Third round: You had to say if the song played sold more or fewer than 10 million records.

Bob’s team won, and they were presented a free bottle of spirits and some chocolate.


Danube riverboat cruise – Budapest, Hungary – Saturday, July 5, 2025

Today’s the day when our pre-cruise stay ended and we boarded the Emerald Star riverboat. We boarded just before 11

and had to wait until 12:30 for our embarkation lunch.

Our cabins were projected to be ready around 2, but were ready earlier. We have a Panoramic Balcony Suite whose highlight is a floor-to-ceiling window that slides down opening it up to the outside. Home sweet home for the next 7 days.

After the captain’s welcome, we had dinner. Typically we get 2 menus, one is the full menu and the other one contains the “captain’s recommendation” from the full choices. I forgot to grab a copy of the full menu, but here’s the captain’s recommendation one, which both Bob and I had.

After dinner, we were treated to a Hungarian Folklore Music & Dancing show. Of course, for our group of about 40 gay men, most eyes were on the male dancers.

and we ended the evening with our riverboat staying in Budapest and cruising around the Danube, which was stunning at night.


Pre-riverboat-cruise – Budapest, Hungary – Friday, July 4, 2025

7 of us from Raleigh — Al, Ken, Susan, Peyton, Kayo, Bob and I — met for happy hour at a nearby pub called Belgian Brasseire,

which had an incredible (meaning pages and pages) of beer selections.

We had 3 or 4 (or 5 or 6) rounds of spirits. Bob and I drank Maker’s Mark on the rocks, and the rest of the group had beer.


We went our separate ways for dinner, and Bob and I ate at a place called Corvin Gastropub, which we thoroughly enjoyed

and we had the Corvin burger, which came with fries, and which was delicious.

Corvin burger and fries

If you’ve traveled in Europe you probably know how hard it is to get some ice in drinks without asking for it, and asking for a lot of it. So imagine our surprise when this cute little bucket of ice with giant-sized ice cubes was delivered with our high balls!

Bourbon and ice!

In my defense, I did say to our server (who was great) that, “We’re Americans so you know we like a lot of ice.” Bless her.


As we ate, I noticed that the businesses around the gastropub all had Corvin in their names, and I asked our server if one person (named Corvin?) owned all of these businesses, to which she laughed and said, “No it’s the name of the square here and he was a king.”

Me: “Oh, did you know him?”

She, laughing more: “No he was around in the 1400s.”


After dinner, we stopped in the Mini ABC, which was right across the street and treated ourselves to dessert.

Bob’s chocolate pretzel treat and John’s Oreo treat

Friday morning’s breakfast

The hotel offered a killer breakfast, and we got our money’s worth:

There was also a coffee station and a water station.

Our first night’s dinner

At the Monastery Boutique Hotel in Budapest, where we’re staying for two nights before we board the Emerald Star for our Danube riverboat cruise, we grabbed an hour-or-so nap upon arrival, and then we had a most delicious dinner in Umo, one of the two restaurants associated with the hotel.

John, Al, Ken, & Bob at dinner

Carlos, who was just adorable, was our server, and when we asked him where he was from he said, “A small city near Mexico City.”

And when we asked him what brought him from Mexico to Budapest, he said, “I came over with a person.” Since any straight guy would have said something like, “I followed my girlfriend here,” we assumed he was on “our team.” And then he added, “But we’re no longer together,” which drew a collective, “Awww” from all of us.

This place had fantastic food.

The menu:

Bob’s and my choices:

And our comeuppance:

Our receipt

Simple syrup, rock candy, and science experiments

At Costco this morning, a man had a cart with 10 25-lbs of fine granulated sugar and 6 18-packs of bottled water.

Of course, the wheels in my head started immediately spinning to answer the question: “Is there anything you can make with just sugar and water?” So I took it to ChatGPT:

With just sugar and water, you can create a few things, including:

  • Simple Syrup: This is made by dissolving equal parts sugar and water, typically by heating the water and stirring in the sugar until completely dissolved. It’s a versatile liquid sweetener used in:
    • Cocktails
    • Sweetening coffees or teas
    • Making lemonades or other fruit beverages
    • Moistening cakes or pastries
    • Creating sorbets or granitas
  • Rock Candy: You can grow rock candy crystals by creating a supersaturated sugar solution (dissolving more sugar in water than it can usually hold at room temperature by heating it), then letting the solution cool. As it cools, the sugar molecules will crystallize onto a string or stick placed in the solution.
     
  • Hard Candy: By boiling a sugar and water mixture to a high temperature (hard crack stage), then pouring it into molds or onto a prepared surface, you can create hard candy. Note that some recipes for hard candy may include additional ingredients like corn syrup.
     
  • Science Experiments: Sugar and water can be used for interesting science experiments, such as demonstrating density. By creating solutions with varying amounts of sugar, you can layer them in a glass to create a colorful “rainbow” effect.

Hollaback b-a-n-a-n-a-s!

My friend sent me this image saying, “7’s for me. Is it 12 or 13 for you?”

She’s not wrong:

  • She’s a lot like Bob (my husband); he picked #8.
  • To me, 12, 13 & 14 are great.
  • 13 looks perfect to slice and put atop some cereal that could use a little natural sweetener.
  • 14 would be good mixed in some vanilla ice cream.
  • And 15 is approaching one that we’d put in the freezer for when Bob makes my annual Best. Ever. Banana. Cake.

This reminds me, Bob knows me so well that one time when I was still working, I wanted a banana for lunch, but he knew the ones we had weren’t ripe enough for me, so he doctored one up with a Sharpie and packed it in my lunch.

Ewwwwww!

We got a bad watermelon at Publix yesterday, and I took a picture of it, along with its receipt, back to get a replacement one.

When I showed the picture to the customer service attendant, she said, “Ewwww! That’s nasty! Go get another one right now.”

When I brought the replacement one up to her, she said, “I’m sorry you had to run back here for this. I know when I open some fresh fruit, I want it to look good — not like that!

I said, “Well, you had no way of knowing what the inside looked like, either, and I appreciate being able to exchange it for another one.”

A coincidence and why???

Recently, “The Flintstone’s purple pet” was a clue in one of the crossword puzzles I do. I hadn’t thought of Dino in a good long while.

Then lo and behold, yesterday at the grocery store, I saw these chunks of chicken.

So many questions… not the least of which is: “Why is that dinosaur on the package green, and are they purple on the inside at least?” And just in terms of making them at all: “Why??? It seems very, very arbitrary to me.”

Our freezer inventories

Why yes, we do keep an inventory of what’s in our freezers, which informs our weekly menus and helps prevent waste. You know you want a snapshot of what’s in each of them at the moment.

KITCHEN FREEZER
6 Angus burgers 1 can OJ
Eggo waffles 1 package cheese ravioli
Mini breakfast quiches (Box of 72) 1 portion tortellini & meatballs
18 spinach egg white frittatas 1 10-lb bag of ice
¼ bag french fries Plan-ahead brownies
Chopped celery Chocolate ice cream

 

HALL FREEZER
2 lbs. bacon 2 (2-packs) of RAW cordon bleu
16 PB&J Uncrustables 2 packages smoked sausage
4 chicken breasts 1 bag African peanut soup
1 package of 6 chicken thighs 1 bag crispy crown potatoes (hash browns)
2 pork tenderloins 1 bag mixed vegetables
2 trays of 6 chicken & veggie dumplings $1M-dollar spaghetti plan-ahead
AmyLu chicken patties 2 lunch portions Italian Wedding Bake
3 packages hot dogs 2 bottles of OJ
1 package hot dog buns 6 plain bagels
½ bag of shrimp (~12 oz.) 6 sesame bagels
2 1-lb packages lunch meat (1 ham, 1 turkey) 1 lb. butter
1 bag boneless chicken bites 1 whipped topping
4 1-lb packages ground beef Haagen-Dazs® ice cream bars
2 bags of scallops

Our menus 06/22/25 – 06/28/25

Day Meal
06/22/25
Sunday
•  Chicken patties on sesame buns
•  Yellow squash
•  House salad
06/23/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Shrimp dinner salad
06/24/25
Tuesday
•  Smoked sausage c̅ pineapple
•  Crispy crown potatoes
•  Green beans
06/25/25
Wednesday
•  Cabbage fried rice c̅ scallops
06/26/25
Thursday
•  Ham
•  Butternut squash
•  Caprese salad
06/27/25
Friday
•  Cheesy noodle casserole (What’s Cooking at Westlake cookbook, p. 318)
•  Mixed vegetables
06/28/25
Saturday
•  Ham & potato soup
•  House salad

Plume doom

A Hershey's Kisses bag and 3 kisses with their plumes highlighted.

In my recent reading of The Emperors of Chocolate: Inside the Secret World of Hershey and Mars, I learned that before there were machines to produce Hershey’s Kisses, the line-people (almost always women) in the factory had to lay that little strip of paper (the “plume”) down on the foil, put the chocolate on it, and then wrap it.

But sometimes the plume blew away before they could set the chocolate on it and wrap it. Because it happened enough, and because there was a lot of pressure to maximize their productivity, the women sometimes licked the chocolate and stuck the plume to it to keep it from blowing away before they could wrap it.

Reading that caused me to muse about, realistically, how important that plume is to the consumer. Please take this brief survey to let us know.

What effect would discontinuing the plume in a Hershey's Kiss have on your life? 1) It wouldn't affect met at all, because my helicopter parents unwrap my Hershey's Kisses for me. 2) I simply wouldn't be able to go on. 3) It would take me 1-2 years to adjust to it. 4) I could successfully transition to the new reality with a maximum of 2 sessions with my therapist. 5) My arthritic hands would welcome this improvement to the unwrapping experience. 6) It would be a mere spec in my circle of concern.

Publix check-in

I’m at the register unloading my cart onto the belt when I feel tap, tap on my back.

Lady behind me in line: “Excuse me. Are you paying cash for your groceries today?”

Me: “No, I’m not.”

Her: “Okay, have a blessed day.” And away she walks.

Now I want to know what her response would have been had I said yes, since I actually did have enough cash in my wallet to pay cash.

XRobotics’ countertop robots are cooking up 25,000 pizzas a month (4-minute read)

XRobotics’ countertop robot, xPizza Cube, can make up to 100 pizzas an hour. Roughly the size of a stackable washing machine, the xPizza Cube can be retrofitted to work with pies of different sizes and styles.

A unit can be leased for $1,300 a month for three years. XRobotics recently raised a $2.5 million seed round – it will use the capital to produce more units and install more robots for customers.

Sources:
•  TLDR. (2025, June 10). TLDR Newsletter. https://a.tldrnewsletter.com/web-version?ep=1&lc=f5cb7e17-003d-11ed-9258-0241b9615763&p=4b975464-45cd-11f0-8a77-ed3cea449fbb&pt=campaign&t=1749552945&s=a65960a3afe76fcebddb32316255501e77afb6582056bb32953fdde467becf3c
•  Szkutak, R. (2025, June 9). XRobotics’ countertop robots are cooking up 25,000 pizzas a month. TechCrunch. https://techcrunch.com/2025/06/09/xrobotics-countertop-robots-are-cooking-up-25000-pizzas-a-month/

Our menus for 06/08/25 – 06/14/25

Day Meal
06/08/25
Sunday
•  Mushroom chicken c̅ orzo
•  Carrot ring / green beans
•  House salad
06/09/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  African peanut soup
•  Crusty bread
06/10/25
Tuesday
•  Glazed ham
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Mixed vegetables
06/11/25
Wednesday
•  Ham-topped chef salad
06/12/25
Thursday
•  Cheesy noodle casserole (What’s Cooking at Westlake cookbook, p. 318)
•  Broccoli
•  Mixed greens salad
06/13/25
Friday
•  Westlake pizza plan-aheads
•  House salad
06/14/25
Saturday
•  Grilled shrimp skewers
•  Grilled vegetables
•  Crispy crown potatoes

Our menus 06/01/25 – 06/07/25

Day Meal
06/01/25
Sunday
•  “Lotsaversary Gathering” plan-aheads
06/02/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Chicken wings
•  French fries
06/03/25
Tuesday
•  Pork tenderloin with roasted carrots, cauliflower, celery, & onions
06/04/25
Wednesday
•  Stir-fry Polish kielbasa c̅ Chinese noodles, cabbage, & other vegetables
06/05/25
Thursday
•  Deep-Dish Pizza (What’s Cooking at Westlake cookbook, p. 293)
•  House salad
06/06/25
Friday
•  Grilled hotdogs
•  Coleslaw
•  Caprese salad
06/07/25
Saturday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Orzo salad

Our menus 5/25/25 – 5/31/25

Day Meal
05/25/25
Sunday
•  The Best Million Dollar Spaghetti
•  House salad
05/26/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Grilling with Sam & Neal
05/27/25
Tuesday
•  Cheese ravioli c̅ Angus meatballs
•  House salad
05/28/25
Wednesday
•  Chicken patties
•  French onion soup
•  Corn
05/29/25
Thursday
•  Pork chops
•  Stuffing
•  House salad
05/30/25
Friday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Green beans
05/31/25
Saturday
(Lotsaversary Gathering)
•  Party food!!!

It’s Cher’s birthday today!

Cher (/ʃɛər/ SHAIR; born Cheryl Sarkisian on May 20, 1946) is an American singer, actress and television personality. She’s 79 today!

And as Bob is wont to do on celebrity singers’ birthdays (or when they die, truth be told), we’re playing “All Cher All Day.”

At around 6 p.m., he walked by me to put 6 of her CDs back in the collection, when I asked, “Do we have any left to play?”

Him: 27. Then we can move on to the Sonny & Cher CDs.

Me: 27 more CDs???

Him: Yes.

Then, after checking the collection: “Actually, only 17 more.”


Shortly we’ll be having dinner, and it’ll be none other than:

Click image for recipe.


And Bob’s most delicious dinner!

Our menus 05/18/25 – 05/24/25

Day Meal
05/18/25
Sunday
•  Chicken & vegetable dumplings
•  House salad
05/19/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering on Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Pork tenderloin
•  Apple sauce
05/20/25
Tuesday
•  Cher’s Hawaiian meatballs in honor of her birthday! Recipe | Bob’s dish!
•  Rice pilaf w/parsley from our yard
Mint-feta-watermelon salad w/mint from our yard
05/21/25
Wednesday
•  Ham steak
•  Crinkle-cut fries
•  House salad
05/22/25
Thursday
•  French onion soup
•  Crusty bread
•  House salad
05/23/25
Friday
•  Spaghetti squash c̅ herbed clam sauce
•  Veggie tots
05/24/25
Saturday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Pasta salad

Grilled shrimp, fruit & veggie kebabs

Last Friday, Bob did all the sous-chef work preparing these items for our grilled shrimp, fruit, & veggie kebabs, which I cooked on the grill.

Yummy, yummy, yummy!

Our menus for 05/11/25 – 05/17/25

Day Meal
05/11/25
Sunday
•  Stuffed peppers
•  House salad
05/12/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering Pelagic Run Club runners)
•  Motor City double pepperoni pizza
05/13/25
Tuesday
•  Peace China takeout
    – Bob: Singapore Rice Noodles
    – John: General Tso Chicken
05/14/25
Wednesday
•  Italian Wedding Pasta Bake
•  House salad
05/15/25
Thursday
•  Lemon dill chicken orzo soup
•  Baguette slices
05/16/25
Friday
•  Grilled chicken breasts & mushrooms
•  Fresh sweet corn
•  Applesauce
05/17/25
Saturday
•  The Best Million Dollar Spaghetti plan-aheads
•  Broccoli
•  Fruit salad

A winning recipe

Bob toiled making The Best Million Dollar Spaghetti recipe from allrecipes.com, which caught my attention because it made me think of my favorite dish from K&W Cafeteria, when it was open at The Village District (née Cameron Village), and where we used to have dinner a couple of times a month. (Bob’s favorite dish there was their liver and onions.)

There is no way this dish couldn’t be out of this world with its “cottage cheese, cream cheese, and sour cream mixture for a decadent, cream spaghetti sauce.” Oh yeah, there’s a ½ cup of butter in it, too!

We had Portuguese rolls for a crusty bread with it and Bob’s homemade fruit salad as a dessert.

Our menus for 05/04/25 – 05/10/25

Day Meal
05/04/25
Sunday
(Family gathering for Mary Lou)
•  Cheeseball & crackers (Vivian bringing)
•  Littlenecks c̅ drawn butter & Portuguese rolls
•  Montreal-Steak-marinated grilled chicken thighs
•  Broccoli salad (Vivian’s bringing)
•  Deviled egg macaroni salad
•  Carrots & celery vegetable tray
•  Chocolate chip walnut cookies
•  Farmers’ Market fresh strawberries c̅ whipped topping
05/05/25
Monday
(Front-porch happy hour cheering Pelagic Runners Club runners)
•  Cookout plan-aheads or Motor City Double-Pepperoni Pizza
05/06/25
Tuesday
•  The Best Million Dollar (Baked) Spaghetti
•  House salad
05/07/25
Wednesday
•  Bibigo chicken & vegetable steamed dumplings
•  Sweet & sour soup
•  Mixed vegetables
05/08/25
Thursday
•  Chicken patties
•  Plan-ahead cabbage soup
•  Corn bread
05/09/25
Friday
•  Grilled shrimp kebabs c̅ pineapple & veggies
05/10/25
Saturday
•  Pork chops & applesauce
•  Mashed potatoes
•  House salad

“Chocolate ‘in a Petri dish’ could save crisis-hit industry”

“Lab-grown chocolate could rival traditional chocolate in several ways. The process can grow cells that multiply swiftly and mature within a week, as opposed to the six to eight months usually required for a conventional cocoa crop. The resulting product can also contain higher levels of health-promoting chemicals and fewer contaminants such as heavy metals or pesticides. The price of cocoa is skyrocketing as the industry deals with drought and other problems.” Source: TLDR. (2025, April 23). TLDR Newsletter.

Read the full article (a 3-minute read): The secrets of lab-grown chocolate.

Our menus for 04/20/25 – 04/26/25

Day Meal
04/20/25
Sunday
(Soup & Salad Sunday)
•  Apple Bacon Salad
•  Cabbage and potato soup
04/21/25
Monday
(Meatloaf Monday)
•  Meatloaf
•  Honey gold mini-potatoes
•  Japanese cucumber salad
04/22/25
Tuesday
(Taco Tuesday)
•  Tacos & fixins
•  Cream salad
04/23/25
Wednesday
(Wonton Wednesday)
•  Bibigo Mini Chicken Wontons
•  Broccoli
04/24/25
Thursday
(Tortellini Thursday)
•  5-cheese tortellini with andouille sausage slices
•  House salad
04/25/25
Friday
(Fried Rice Friday)
•  Scallop fried rice
•  Applesauce
04/26/25
Saturday
(Shrimp Scampi Saturday)
•  The Pioneer Woman Shrimp Scampi
•  House salad

Menus for 4/13/25 – 4/19/25

Day Meal
04/13/25
Sunday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  Corn
•  House salad
04/14/25
Monday
•  Air-fried sliced chorizo
•  Crinkle-cut fries
•  House salad
04/15/25
Tuesday
•  Stuffed clams
•  African peanut soup
04/16/25
Wednesday
•  Onion & cheddar chicken patties
•  Butternut squash
•  Green beans
04/17/25
Thursday
•  Gyro slices with feta
•  Mixed vegetables
•  Kalamata-olive slaw
04/18/25
Friday
•  Ham
•  Sautéed mushrooms & onions
•  Yeast rolls
04/19/25
Saturday
•  Cheese tortellini with andouille sausage slices
•  House salad

That should tide me over

On Saturday morning, I set out on an 8-day drive. Oh sorry, did I say 8-day? I meant 8-hour.

After about 2 hours, making my first stop — at the Welcome to Virginia rest stop — I took a minute to lay out the “snacks and lunch” my husband packed for me, which included two most delicious homemade sausage biscuits.

Versatile grilled chicken

I grilled chicken on Sunday evening:

We grilled enough to make 3 meals of it, each delicious in its own way. Bob’s homemade pasta salad is yummy!

Menus for 03/30/25 – 04/05/25

Day Meal
03/30/25
Sunday
•  Grilled chicken chef salad
•  Rutabaga
03/31/25
Monday
(Run club & Clint’s birthday front-porch happy hour)
•  Chips & salsa
•  Cream cheese sausage balls
•  Carrots & celery
•  Birthday cake cupcakes
04/01/25
Tuesday
•  Ham
•  Butternut squash
•  Mixed vegetables
04/02/25
Wednesday
•  Wings
•  Crinkle-cut fries
•  House salad
04/03/25
Thursday
•  Mile-high salsa pie
•  Cream salad
04/04/25
Friday
•  Gyro pitas
•  Greek salad
04/05/25
Saturday
(John: Shrek @ 7 p.m.)
•  Grilled chicken patties
•  Quinoa salad

Three 50-word stories about our recent trip to Scottsdale.

The Michaelses The birthday boy The Thompsons & Stoimenoffs
We had dinner with our friends Sherry and Fred at Baby Kay’s Cajun Kitchen in Mesa, AZ. John and Sherry met on an ambassadorial trip in October of 2008 to Beijing, Guilin, and Shanghai. We don’t see each other #IRL often, but like this time, it’s always a great visit. My husband’s brother, Tommy, celebrated his 75th birthday, and we flew in to attend a surprise party for him. His brother Jimmy and his wife Cindy hosted the gala, and I met a nephew for the first time who also flew in for the occasion. Bob made the birthday cake. We met grade-school friends of my husband for lunch one day. I was Facebook friends with one of them, so it was great to meet her in person. Bob and I enjoyed a bruschetta board, which was fantastic — second only to the company we enjoyed dining al fresco at Postino’s.

Our menus for the week of 03/23/25 – 03/29/25

Day Meal
03/23/25
Sunday
(Lunch with Thompsons & Stoimenoffs @ Postino Highland, Scottsdale, AZ)
•  Shared a choice-of-4 bruschetta board:

  1. Smoked salmon & pesto
  2. Salami & pesto
  3. Burrata, bacon, arugula, & tomato
  4. Fresh mozzarella, tomato, & basil
03/24/25
Monday
(Return flight to Raleigh, arriving 8:15 p.m.)
•  DiGiorno pepperoni & jalapeños pizza
03/25/25
Tuesday
•  Korean beef
•  Broccoli
•  Quinoa salad
03/26/25
Wednesday
•  Sliced ham
•  Mashed potatoes
•  House salad
03/27/25
Thursday
•  Parmesan-garlic cod
•  Carrots
•  House salad
03/28/25
Friday
(Celebrating David Stratton’s birthday)
•  High Rail
03/29/25
Saturday
•  Relish tray
•  Grilled chicken
•  Pasta salad

Our menus for 3/16/25 – 3/22/25

Whew! That was a big party-food-eating week!

Day Meal
03/16/25
Sunday
(Nicholas Blanchard’s St. Patrick’s Day party, 3 p.m.)
•  Party food
03/17/25
Monday
(Pelagic Run Club cheering front-porch happy hour)
•  Layered taco dip (⅓ corn, ⅔ beans) & chips
•  Veggie tray
•  Cream cheese cookies
03/18/25
Tuesday
•  Pork & vegetable stir-fry
•  Cabbage
03/19/25
Wednesday
(Leigh & Jaleh happy hour)
•  Layered taco dip (⅓ corn, ⅔ beans) & chips
•  Veggie tray
•  Cream cheese cookies
03/20/25
Thursday
(Baby Kay‘s w/ Sherry & Fred in Mesa, AZ)
•  John: Catfish & shrimp basket w/fries
•  Bob: Catfish dinner w/potato salad
•  Shared: Green-olive slaw
03/21/25
Friday
(Take-out from Scottsdale Carlos O’Brien‘s @ Cindy & Jimmy’s)
•  John: Favorite Fajita Quesadilla
•  Bob: Chicken Taco & Chicken Enchilada (“the #4”)
03/22/25
Saturday
(Tommy’s 75th surprise birthday party @ Cindy & Jimmy’s in Scottsdale)
•  Catered sandwich platters (roast beef, turkey, & ham on white bread and tuna on croissants)
•  Cindy-made salads: one curried sweet potatoes & other veggies, one broccoli & other veggies)
•  Bob’s Best. Ever. Banana. Cake. (among other desserts like brownies & lemon bars)

Bob places in our annual neighborhood chili party!

Our neighborhood has an annual chili party that’s been going on for more than 25 years. It has a theme each year, and medals are awarded for 1st, 2nd, & 3rd place in each category of meat and vegetarian. They also added a category for cornbread this year!

This year’s theme was Dune: The Spice Must Flow, and Bob made an Irish chili, and named it “Howya Dune?” And he won 3rd place in the meat category!


This is his third 3rd place medal in 15 years:


And noticing that they’re in 5-year intervals, he wrote this haiku about the feat:

Third place chili thrice
They were each 5 years apart
Twenty-thirty next


Capturing for posterity:

  • The 2015 theme was “Eat Local Chili” and Bob’s chili was named: “Bob’s Beanless Batch.” (Context: I don’t like beans, so Bob made the bold choice to make his entry this year without them.)
  • The 2020 theme was “Passport to Chili” and Bob’s chili was named: “PORCH-uguese Chile.” (Context: The chili entries in crockpots are set up on tables on the Watkins’ wraparound porch, and John is half Portuguese.)
  • The 2025 theme was “Dune: The Spice Must Flow” and Bob’s chili was named “Howya Dune?” (Context: Bob is part Irish and “Howya?” is how Irish people say “How are you?” and “Dune” of course is intimating “doing.”)

I’m proud of what a great and dedicated cook Bob is, and I’m thrilled when he’s recognized by others for his efforts. Congratulations, Bob!

Our menus for 03/09/25 – 03/15/25

Day Meal
03/09/25
Sunday
•  Loaded baked potatoes
•  Broccoli
03/10/25
Monday
(John @ NCSU work alum meet-up)
•  Free night
03/11/25
Tuesday
•  Korean beef c̅ riced cauliflower
•  House salad
03/12/25
Wednesday
•  Angus meatballs c̅ rigatoni
•  Broccoli
03/13/25
Thursday
•  Grilled jalapeño & cheddar sausages
•  Quinoa salad
03/14/25
Friday
•  Cordon bleu
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Green beans
03/15/25
Saturday
(Josey St. Pádraig’s Day party)
•  Party food

It’s what’s for lunch

We got one of Costco’s 10-lb spiral ham when it was on sale for $10 off — marked down from $25 to $15.

Kirkland spiral sliced ham

Bob made some delicious ham salad from some of it, and for lunch today, he prepared some romaine lettuce to make ham salad lettuce wraps with. So good.

Lettuce wraps made with romaine lettuce leaves and homemade ham salad

Our menus for 03/02/25 – 03/08/25

Day Meal
03/02/25
Sunday
•  Shrimp cocktail
•  Hot & sour soup
03/03/25
Monday
•  Turkey breast c̅ cranberry
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Green beans
03/04/25
Tuesday
•  Ham
•  Potatoes
•  Broccoli
03/05/25
Wednesday
(Leigh & Jaleh happy hour)
•  Rotel cream cheese sausage balls
•  Vegetable tray
03/06/25
Thursday
•  Chicken & vegetable stir-fry
•  Riced cauliflower
03/07/25
Friday
(Beth Putz’s birthday party)
•  Party food
03/08/25
Saturday
(Watkins’ Chili Party)
•  Chili, chili, & more chili
•  Cornbread, cornbread, & more cornbread

Our menus for 02/23/25 – 03/01/25

Day Meal
02/23/25
Sunday
(Mafia party)
•  Take antipasto tray
02/24/25
Monday
(Runners’ happy hour with Guy Lampe et al.)
•  A “simple” smörgåsbord
02/25/25
Tuesday
•  Scallop & corn soup
•  House salad
02/26/25
Wednesday
•  Milton’s pepperoni-sausage-onion Stromboli
•  House salad
02/27/25
Thursday
•  Spaghetti squash c̅ meat sauce
•  House salad
02/28/25
Friday
•  Baked cod
•  Acorn squash
•  Green beans
03/01/25
Saturday
MordeGras party, taking:
•  Chocolate chip cookies
•  Vegetable tray
•  Deviled eggs

John & Bob’s menus for 02/16/25 – 02/22/25

This is a snapshot of the current “freezers inventory,” which Bob uses to inform our menus for the upcoming week. We have a standalone upright freezer (denoted as ↓) and the regular freezer that’s part of our refrigerator (denoted as ↑).

Day Meal
02/16/25
Sunday
•  African peanut soup
•  Rustic bread
•  Mixed greens salad
02/17/25
Monday
•  Ham
•  Rutabagas & jicama
•  House salad
02/18/25
Tuesday
•  Pork loin
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Broccoli
02/19/25
Wednesday
•  Stir-fry pork c̅ vegetables
•  Hot & sour soup
02/20/25
Thursday
•  “Chouriço & chips”
•  Portuguese salad
02/21/25
Friday
•  Grilled Angus burgers
•  Quinoa salad
02/22/25
Saturday
•  Grilled chicken thighs
•  Potato salad
•  Green beans

A Valentine’s Day tradition: heart-shaped cuisine made with love

It’s the 10-year anniversary of Bob making some kind of heart-shaped food on Valentine’s Day each year. He might have done it before 2015, but that’s the year I came into the picture and started documenting them.

Ta-da! The 2025 masterpieces: a Ghirardelli Caramel Walnut Turtle brownie cake and some Cherry Jell-O!

Creations over the years:

Happy Valentine’s Day to my thoughtful and talented husband!

John & Bob’s menus for 02/09/25 – 02/15/25

Day Meal
02/09/25
Sunday
•  Scallop & corn soup
•  Green beans
02/10/25
Monday
•  Lobster ravioli
•  Broccoli
•  House salad
02/11/25
Tuesday
•  Chicken & vegetable stir-fry over shredded cabbage
02/12/25
Wednesday
•  Pork chops
•  Mashed potatoes
•  Applesauce
02/13/25
Thursday
•  Tortellini c̅ meatballs
•  Zucchini
02/14/25
Friday
•  Pepperoni pizza
02/15/25
Saturday
•  Chicken cordon bleu
•  House salad

Coffee taste test…

~Friday~  On Tuesday, I qualified for today’s taste test at the NC State Sensory Service Center, and after indicating my top 3 choices for time and date, I was assigned today at 10:40.

If you want to get on their list to qualify for future taste tests—and get paid for them!—register at Become a Taster.

This is not my first time at the taste-testing rodeo by any stretch of the imagination. I’ve blogged about several of them in the past: bread, bacon, milk, hamburger patties, oven-roasted turkey, and a 3-part (over 3 days) sour cream taste test.

Ha. Just looked back at that sour cream one, and I’d forgotten about having to wear a mask and nose clip for one part of it!

Me with the blindfold and the nose clip on

Back to today’s coffee-tasting test…

As has been the case in the past, I over-think these things with too much consideration of the language used in the question, worrying that’s it not clear and concise enough to guarantee responses that will lead to reliable data from which to draw conclusions. I know, “Not my circus. Not my monkeys. Not my circus. Not my monkeys. Not my circus. Not my monkeys.”


When I checked in, the proctor said to me, “In the survey you filled out to qualify for today’s test, you indicated that you drink your coffee black, so please do that today.”

I took a seat and logged in on the iPad, brought up the first screen, and asked for coffee sample 382, the first of 3 coffees I’d taste in the next 20 minutes, before collecting my $20 Target gift card.


Here’s what the first one looked like when it arrived.

Sample sample


Here is the first page of the questionnaire:

Ready for sample

The problem I have (and you know I have at least one) with these two questions is that having only read the first question, I based my answer solely on the color, since that’s what came to mind when I read “appearance.”

So, of course I’m taken aback when I get to the second question and it asks me what I think of the color. After answering it the same way I orginally answered the first question, I go back to the first one, and I think, “Hmmm. What else could they mean by ‘appearance’ other than the color? Do they mean the choice of a Styrofoam cup to serve it in? Or the amount they’ve poured in said cup? Or maybe I’m supposed to indicate how I feel about those little bubbles around the edge of the coffee against said cup?”

Why not define what they mean by appearance so that everyone is using the same criteria to answer the question? Just a thought.


After tapping “Next,” this screen comes up, which immediately elicits questions for me:

Add-ins

Of course, I’m totally not expecting this screen because of what the proctor said to me when she checked me in. My first thought is, “Oh, is it okay to put in additives now that I’ve answered those first two questions? Or am I supposed to ignore this screen (i.e., check “None”), because I said I drink it black?”

This seems like an easy thing to fix to preclude the “noise” that just went through my head, and probably will go through many of the testers’ heads during the course of this testing. Change the question to something like, “If you didn’t indicate you drink your coffee black, from the provided additives, What if any, did you add to your coffee?” Just a thought.


I have a couple of problems with these questions:

Mouthfeel

First of all, I’m pretty sure “mouthfeel” isn’t a real word. And although I get that it’s easy to deduce what it means, I would argue that the test administrators should provide a definition of the word to ensure that everyone is interpreting it the same way.

As for the bitterness questions, I find it unnerving that both questions are the exact same, with only the choices of answers differing between them.

That aside, this is what goes through my mind trying to answer that first one:

  • “Okay, I don’t think it’s bitter, so how should I answer this?”
  • “If I like bitter coffee, and this tastes bitter, then do I select one of the ‘Like..’ options? Does that make sense?”
  • “Or if I don’t like bitter coffee, and this tastes bitter, then do I select one of the ‘Dislike..’ options? Does that make sense?”
  • “Okay, I don’t like bitter coffee, and this doesn’t taste bitter, so how do I indicate that? Do I ‘Like’ it?
  • “I’m going to select, ‘Neither like nor dislike,’ but I’m not sure that that indicates how I actually feel about the nonexistent bitterness.”

There were only a few other questions, about which I don’t have any complaints. I know, right??? One of them was, “Did you notice any aftertaste after drinking this coffee?”


You get 30 seconds between samples to “clear your palate,” for which water and a saltine cracker is provided, along with a timer.

Timer